Be gracious about it, and don't tell her you're dropping her, just… disappear. You may find she becomes so intrigued that she begins chasing after you, or you may find that she falls off your radar altogether. Either way, it's good for you. That girl I mentioned earlier in this post, who called me trying to get something from me and didn't really want to meet up with me?
Chances are, I won't ever talk to this girl again, because it's not a worthwhile use of my time. She clearly is trying to use me to benefit her life without doing anything to benefit mine. If, on the other hand, she wants to be just friends and use me to help her friends and maybe talk to me or have me as a shoulder to cry on, that benefits her, but all it does for me is suck up time I could be using to build my businesses or meet new women or spend time with friends who benefit my life as much as I benefit theirs.
Think about it like this: with a girl you're just friends with, that you don't really want to be just friends with, you've typically invested a great deal of time and effort and energy. And the more you invest in someone, the more committed to them you become. You can very quickly end up in the unenviable situation of being far more committed to a woman for having invested far more in her than she is in you for having invested far less in you.
When you're more committed to a woman than she is to you, seduction is doomed. Positively doomed. Doom for the chances of that seduction. Ultimately, it ties into one of the very core tenets of being a man: a man does not keep people around him who make him feel like less than a man. What that means, of course, is that if a woman starts viewing you as "like her girlfriend," it's time you forgot her and moved on.
For your own sake, it's the healthiest thing you can do. There are a lot more women out there you can find to treat you like the man you are!
Never be afraid to walk away from a bad situation. You always have options — that's what real men realize. And those men — those men unafraid to walk away from bad situations — rest assured, they never end up in the friend zone, because they just won't let women put them in it. Chase woke up one day in tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.
After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends plus plenty of failures along the way , he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System. Skip to main content. And then she said something that really stood out: "I like him as a friend. We can talk about anything.
I'm like his guy friend. And he's like my girlfriend. What's he doing wrong, and how have I not made the same mistakes? They are as follows: Speed — or lack thereof. There's no getting around it — men who move fast with women get more girls, and they even do better with the higher quality girls. How come? Because, generally, the longer a man takes to move things forward with a woman, the less she's going to tell herself she likes him.
If a guy "works on" a girl for weeks or months and still doesn't take a girl to bed, she's going to view him as a lot less "man" than she does a man who beds her the day or the night he meets her, or on their first date.
And when she looks back at those scenarios and considers them, she's going to think to herself, "Wow, I went to bed with Tom a lot faster than I went to bed with Sam I must've found Tom much more attractive than Sam if I went to bed with him so much faster.
But poor Sam How much you invest in her. The Law of Least Effort comes into play here, as the more effort a man puts into getting together with a woman, the less she's going to consider him a valid romantic option. Women are most attracted to men who get them as effortlessly as possible; if a man gets her while visibly expending little effort, she reasons that she must be quite attracted to him to be doing these things with him despite his lack of investment.
The reverse is true, as well: men who invest a great deal of time, effort, and energy investing in women tend to get thought of as unattractive men. If he's such a great catch, why does he have to work so hard to get her?
This is the source of the friend zoned-guy's lament: "I've done so much for her, and then she goes and runs into the arms of that guy, who treats her like dirt! Skip to main content. Just A Friend Of Mine. Zoot Woman. Listen Now. Your Amazon Music account is currently associated with a different marketplace. Sample this song.
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